COVID19 – Doing it Tough

COVID 19 doing it tough

Doing it tough applies to so many people and groups these days. Businesses, especially small ones are doing it tough. Of course that flows on to the people they employ, and there are a vast number (putting it mildly) of unemployed because of COVID 19. Surprisingly, to me ‘cos I never thought of it, sports players are doing it tough. They cannot play sports or train as a team ‘live.’

As time goes on, so many people are complaining of social isolation… sorry, I don’t mean to offend, but probably will. Beneath the layers of complaints are some groups of people I know of, for whom this is not a new problem.

Veterans are doing it tough

doing it tough, soldier

I have no personal experience of a veteran’s life, but since becoming aware of the problems, I have read some stories. The following comment, sadly, epitomizes people’s self-centeredness. It is shown so poignantly by a comment from a young veteran.

“I was watching the news one day and it was some trivial stuff about the price of fuel. I said to my dad, ‘I don’t get it, why is everyone so up in arms about the price of fuel when on the other side of the world there are people literally dying and no one gives a hoot?’ Dad turned around and goes, ‘Because this is their world’, and it just blew my mind. When he said that I realised that it was true, that deploying to warlike operations or coming back from war, no-one really gave a crap.”

Whole article here https://www.abc.net.au/news/2017-04-25/being-a-war-veteran-at-27/8467046

Think about it for a moment, and when you have thought, if you pray, then say a prayer for these people. If you are an employer, consider hiring a veteran.

Others doing it tough

Some, by ‘virtue’ of caring for the vulnerable, have to ‘self-isolate’ as a matter of course. I have a dear friend in this position. Her adult daughter is in the ‘high vulnerability’ category. She has had a serious health condition since she was in her teens. Now, she is more than twice that age and has to be extremely careful. Her mother has to self-isolate to protect her.

Another friend is a Carer for a vulnerable young man and has to self-isolate to protect him.

 

slave to age

People over a certain age are classified as being vulnerable, and in the ‘special category’ that others are supposed to respect. Most, people do, but others, thinking they will brighten up the lonely life of a friend, or acquaintance, ignore the warning. In spite of their good intentions, they are putting someone at risk.

Then there are ‘us.’

People with serious health problems whose lifestyle is isolated. Example…

My late husband and I suffer(ed) fragrance allergies. In those days it was seen as us ‘being funny,’ or exaggerating a dislike. Let me assure you, I used to like perfume, and my late husband used to like his aftershave. These were some of the many products we had to give up… and avoid people who would not respect our health conditions. It is a health condition.
https://www.fragrancex.com/blog/fragrance-sensitivity/

https://www.susanprestonauthor.com/fragrance-sensitivity-is-a-real-condition/

So many losses.

  • Our own lifestyle changes
  • Not being able to attend church any more
  • Nor could we attend movie or theatre performances
  • Even public transport became a nightmare.

It seemed that we became problems to our own families.

Another category

This has been brought to the front of my mind when I saw so many complaints from Facebook ‘friends.’ So many complaints about social isolation!

Some people no longer have a life! COVID 19 claimed their lives, and left their families grieving. Who cares about the people who have lost family members to this ‘plague?’

Then there are are many like me. Alone, chronically ill, isolated.

Since my husband died, over six years ago, this – and other ‘special’ times of year, I have had to celebrate alone.

Then, since my health took a ‘dive’ and I ended up needing an increasing flow rate of oxygen over the twenty-four hours a day I require it, I have been self-isolated. What is it the Americans say? ‘Suck it up.” Not quite sure what that means, but it sounds like what I have had to learn to do. Make the best of what I have, look at what I can do, and don’t bother complaining.

Most people are too focused on their own lives and difficulties to be interested in the lives of people like me, permanently in ‘lockdown.’

I am not insensitive to the difficulties of those unused to this way of life!

And I do pray for them to be able to cope with the separation. 

But when all of this is over,  their lives will continue.

The lives of people like me and those others mentioned in this blog will continue on in isolation.

This is not meant to offend, although I am afraid it might, and it is not the post I had intended for this week. However, I guess reading all those complaints about how difficult life is under these restrictions stirred me up.

doing it tough, woman alone

Closing thoughts… these restrictions might be saving lives… perhaps the life of one of your dear family members.

I hope so,

God bless

Susan

Social Distancing in Perilous Times

Social distancing, not immune

Social distancing is nothing new, what is new is that now it applies to people who never experienced it before. Many people have already been isolated; some from disease, some from disability, and others because their spouses and friends have died. However, now everyone (who keeps the rules) can experience what these people have already experienced.

Will it make people…

  • More understanding of the less fortunate?
  • Less critical of other people?
  • Aware of what it feels like to be ‘stuck at home?’

And for those who are in the categories above…

  • Kinder towards those who are experiencing these things for the first time?
  • Understand, rather than think ‘now you know what it feels like?’
  • Offer help?

Interesting article on Wired.
https://www.wired.com/story/coronavirus-covid-19-isolation-psychology/

Social distancing and COVID 19 dominate the news

Most of us are weary of hearing nothing else, but we watch, listen, and try to understand.

As the article on ‘Wired’ states, “depression and anxiety are kissing cousins.”

What is known about the virus is not much more than it was at the start… see a previous post https://www.susanprestonauthor.com/coronavirus-what-do-we-know/

Talking, via video conferencing with friends overseas, it seems that compared to them Western Australia has enacted much stricter rules. But with a degree of compassion.

A German cruise ship which has been refused entry to several ports was finally granted access, under strict conditions, to Fremantle port.

Passengers had made signs saying ‘Thank you Fremantle,’ as well as ‘We love Fremantle.”

What now?

Like circling sharks, several cruise ships have been travelling up and down the West Australian coast. However, some have anchored in Gage Roads waiting.

The situation here changes daily. Who could fail to feel sorry for the passengers on these expensive world cruises, who are denied entry at most ports.

https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2020/mar/25/cruise-ship-passengers-to-be-quarantined-on-rottnest-island-in-western-australia

Then it changed, and   two private hospitals are now caring for some of the passengers taken from the ship.

Other ‘venues’ have been proposed.

Some defy the order for social distancing

risk to healthcare workers


And have led to the closure of beaches, the frustration of authorities, and put others in danger.

If you ignore the rules and contract this virus, you are putting a strain on the hospital system. You are also costing the few remaining tax payers their valuable tax dollars, which would be better used in prevention, or finding a solution. In addition you are putting the lives/health of our healthcare and emergency workers at risk.

Danger of social isolation

Unless we make an effort to keep in touch we will become ‘stay-at-home’ shut-ins. Already, because of busy lifestyles the elderly are often forgotten. With people working at least one job, up until recently at any rate, there never seemed to be time for visiting elderly family members. What happens now? And what happens if the elderly person is not a relative?

What can we, who are used to being isolated do to help?

  • Email
  • Phone calls
    • Ask if the person needs any shopping done.
  • Send a card, or leave one in their mailbox.
  • Leave a small food parcel on the doorstep of someone you know is isolated.

Don’t forget

This virus, and the ‘flu which will follow it, does not only target old people. Young people are at risk, so are children and in a rare case, an infant in Illinois has died after testing positive. https://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/world/covid-19-united-states-rare-case-us-infant-dies-coronavirus-12586822

May the parents find comfort.

And may you all find peace

Susan