Slaves to a System

Slaves? Sadly, yes. We are all slaves to some system or other. Can you identify?

It might be to…

  • Debt
  • Your workplace
  • An addiction
  • Your health

There are lots more that could be added. Such as some of us are slaves because of age. What does that mean? No longer being able to do the tasks, or enjoy the pleasures you once had.

Slaves to other people’s opinion.

Over the years I have known many people with what are now called ‘hidden illnesses.’

These includes chronic physical conditions such as arthritis, asthma, diabetes, fibromyalgia, and others including brain injury after trauma. It can be very difficult for sufferers of these conditions who, in other’s eyes, have nothing wrong.

I thought the idea at the link below an excellent one.

https://www.headway.org.uk/news-and-campaigns/news/2019/sunflower-lanyards-take-off-for-passengers-with-hidden-disabilities/

Then we have those who think the elderly, especially if they are chronically ill, should be given a ‘death pill’ at a certain age. (Honestly, I read a discussion about that online.)

I am a slave to aged care

slave to age

When we are in the aged care system, it seems like it is the ‘luck of the draw’ whether or not you receive the help needed.

My several ‘life-limiting’ conditions are managed, albeit with a bit of difficulty some days, but I have one ‘condition’ that is either not believed, or not understood. A very strong sensitivity to fragrances. As I blogged about once before, Fragrance Sensitivity is a Real Condition https://www.susanprestonauthor.com/fragrance-sensitivity-is-a-real-condition/

My serious sensitivity to fragrances has cost me a home care provider. (They could not provide me with a carer who  was willing to not wear fragrance.)

So, what am I a slave to?

The sensitivity, or people’s opinions about whether I am or not?

My home is one of the few things in my life I have control over. Fragrance sensitivity is life-limiting in a different way from my ‘will-end-up-dying’ from the other conditions.  There are so many place I can no longer go… cinema, theatre, public transport, celebrations too because other people will wear some variety of fragrance. It’s worse than having the coronavirus… that will finish, the fragrance sensitivity is something that sufferers are stuck with. Some things can be controlled in my environment, but when other people come into my home wearing something that sets off my ‘allergies’ it is a nightmare to endure… and also life-threatening because I cannot receive the oxygen I need through my nasal prongs when suffering allergic rhinitis.

And if the person knows I am fragrance sensitive but chooses to ignore it – well, isn’t that a form of elder abuse?

Read the information at the links below if you have the time. Perhaps it will open your eyes, or perhaps not.

https://www.news-medical.net/health/Perfume-Allergy.aspx

https://www.health.com/condition/allergy/fragrance-sensitivity-health-effects

https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/blog/perfume-stinks-how-fragrances-can-affect-health

Some people are kind, others are rude. I have met, and had to deal with people from both ends of the spectrum and at various points in between.

What are you enslaved to?

  • Debt
  • Your workplace
  • An addiction
  • Your health

To some extent, most of these can be ‘worked on.’ Age is debatable, but the hardest to deal with is other people’s fixed opinions and refusal to consider anything but their own opinion.

Something to think about.

Susan

Not giving up, giving

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